Blow his mind
When one iVillager asked for advice on how to put a smile on her boyfriend's face, the members of the Let's Talk About Sex board were only too happy to help
Just wondered if the wise old girls and boys in this neighbourhood had any blow job tips or special techniques they could share? I only get to see my boyfriend every two or three months. Next time I'd like him to think, 'WHOA!'
Much appreciated.
craigyschick
1. Slow and steady
'I like to play with it first to get him all turned on and then start to lightly lick the tip with the tip of my tongue, at the same time gently but firmly holding it at the base of the shaft with one hand and cupping his balls in the other.
'Once you've licked the tip, it'll be lubricated for you to slide the top inch or two into your mouth. Create a slow but steady rhythm with your two hands and your mouth, visualising a 'pulse' rather than the kind of rhythm during intercourse.
'Slide up and down the shaft whenever you feel like it, and while your lips are still round him, circle his head with your tongue (practise on a banana). Make sure you keep your hands gently moving or it'll just feel like you're resting your hands on him and you'll lose the eroticism of it all!
'Go with the flow - you don't have to be down there for long to blow his mind - if you're doing well, quit while you're ahead and ask him what he wants next (kind of sex goddess whisper: "what would you like to do now, baby?")'
mini-mel
2. Eye contact
'If you really want to drive him wild with a blow job, try this: while you're sucking on it, run your tongue around the head at the same time. It also seems to get to them if you lick it and look straight into their eyes at the same time. Try it... you'll see.'
dlhanna2001
3. Ice ice baby
'While giving him a blowjob, to make him really wild:
a) suck on some ice until your mouth goes numb, then quickly slide his penis deep into your mouth. It really does send shivers down their spine!
b) while his penis is quite far in, gently (VERY gently) just bite the shaft and drag yourself up. It shouldn't hurt - just makes a change that's all. My boyfriend likes it, anyway.'
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